Marriage is definitely not something easy. Now it seems the word divorce was so easy to pronounce. Want to have a lasting marriage? This is the secret. Author of 'The Secret Lives of Wives: Women Share What It Really Takes To Stay Married', Iris Krasnow give some advice to you who want long-lasting marriage. The advice was expressed based on his experience writing his book. In writing his book, he interviewed more than 200 women who could continue to maintain her marriage, though buffeted by various trials. Want Lasting Marriage? The magnitude of this secret! Let's to find out.
First, Iris provides advice for you, the women are still single and looking for prospective husbands. He said do not be afraid to get married until you see how easy it is just because divorce occurs among celebrities.
"Many marriages can last a long time, like one that could last up to 70 years and I write in the book," he said as quoted by the Huffington Post.
Learning from her own wedding which has been running for 23 years and various other women who choose to marry and have children, there are some important things to keep in mind if you decide to its status as a 'wife'. Some basic things to keep in mind if you want to get married is a commitment, patient, loyal and responsible.
If you are not yet willing or ready to work hard to maintain the marriage, through various trials either boredom or economic problems, it could still be single. Iris emphasizes, once you decide to get married and have children, you can not back out anymore.
"I'm willing does not mean 'I might', but 'I want'," he said.
Of course there are two different meanings of 'I may' and 'I want' it. The difference, as there are children present at the wedding and you turned out to be a cool parent, the baby is still your flesh and blood. Meanwhile, when you have wedding vows, unfortunately, the marriage can be easily cracked, although the new few months.
Marriage is a promise. When you were little, of course, parents often teach you to always fulfill the promise is not it? 'Commitment' is the word that should be recognized by you and your partner.
From wawancarannya with 200 women whose marriage lasting, Iris is well aware of households living ark is not easy. Even the couple whose marriage seems to be strong even under stress.
According to Iris, based on interviews with more than 200 women, he could count on one hand, who had never crossed his mind the word divorce. Of course it will fair if you are thinking to 'divorce'.
But thinking about divorce it will be very different when you eventually hire a lawyer to take care of the child custody and joint property. Couples who are divorced too often give advice, not the grass is always greener, so you try it. So keep in mind, end the marriage will still make the heart sad and disappointed, especially if you and your partner already have children.
You who believe a marriage that means forever, until death do us part, will try to get through the wedding despite many trials and pain. The women who can continue to maintain this marriage, continue to keep its promise despite her husband's illness affected her lung cancer or breast cancer, loss of a child, had economic problems and beberbagai other trials. The women often see their wedding photos to remind that the first marriage is not just a fancy dress and party, but how to keep their promises on a commitment.
Iris is also emphasized, marriage is not a play. Marriage is the real thing, a thing that was decided by adults so that should determine the direction and integrity until the end of life.
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